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Sketches For My Grandchildren - Loizeaux

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A Year in Berlin
==A Year in Berlin==
Oh no! Not the Berlin we we hear so much about in these days, but a thriving city in Green Lake Co., [[Wisconsin]]. Father's brother, John, was a farmer, living a few miles out from Berlin. I knew Uncle John and Aunt Hannah, but had never seen my cousins, William and Edgar. Uncle wrote, inviting me to make them a visit. Father and Mother urged it. I had worked hard, they said, and a change would do me good. So I gave up the thought of teaching that summer and went to Uncle John's. Never having traveled alone, it seemed quite an adventure; but I undertook it with less trepidation than I should have felt at any time in coming from Plainfield to New York alone.
The summer passed pleasantly. We always went to Sunday School and Church in Berlin. One Sunday, uncle and aunt and I were asked to dinner at Mr. Keys'. Mrs. Keys was charming, and Charles and Edward became my friends at once. At dinner, someone asked when I was going home. "In time to engage a school for the winter", I replied. Mrs. Keys then remarked that there was to be a teacher's examination the following week, with some thirty or forty candidates. "Whey do you not take the examination, and get a position here?" she asked. "Oh! That is not to be thought of. My parents expect me home."
All went fairly well for several weeks. Then one evening, I noticed Charlie Keys and his brother fussing around their desks until all the others had gone out. This was so unusual that I asked, "What is the matter, boys?" Shyly they approached my desk, and with tears in his eyes, Charlie said, "Teacher, don't try to whip Herbert Stedman". "I surely shall, unless he mends his ways pretty soon."
"Oh, but you can't do it; he fought the other teachers, and the big boys have all pledged themselves to help him. We heard them talking." I thanked them, calling them "dear boys", and told them not to worry, I wasn't afraid; but I did not feel exactly gay, when I was left alone. Herbert Steadman Stedman was sixteen, and a head taller than I. He chewed tobacco, smoked, swore, and sometimes got drunk. He always failed to get promoted out of that grad, and I wondered why he was allowed there at all. Except that my room was noisy, so many feet on the bare floor, I was almost satisfied. Lessons went well, and there was little whispering. Friday afternoons were devoted to singing, reading compositions and speaking pieces.
One day while a small girl was reading: <u>Bang</u>! and something flew across the room, from the boys' side to that of the girls. Immediately you could have heard a pin drop. "Finish your reading" to the little girl, the silence continuing. When she had finished, I walked up the aisle, and picked up a boot! Not a shoe, but a boot with leg nearly to the knee. Returning to the platform, I held it up. "Who threw this boot?" "I did!" in an impudent tone, from Herbert. "<u>Come</u> <u>here</u>, Herbert." He came to me with the air of a conqueror, as I stood with the raw-hide in my right hand.
Almost the whole school was at the station to say goodbye. When the train moved off, I hid my face against the window, and had a little cry. Then a voice behind me said, "You are leaving many friends behind you. I should cry myself under like circumstances." I turned to look into the kind eyes of a white-haired old gentleman.
 
* Herbert Stedman was one of at least six children of Harvey Stedman (b. 1813 Livonia, Livingston, N.Y. - d. 1875 Berlin, Green Lake, WI) & Mary Louisa Warren Stedman (b. 1818 N.Y. - d. 1891 Berlin, WI). He was born May 5, 1848 at Newfane, Niagara, N.Y., and died in Nov. 1927 in Farmington, Waupaca, WI. His first wife was Mary Ann Knight Stedman (1860-1893), who gave him three sons. His second wife was Cora Belle Durrant Stedman (1875-1959) who gave him two daughters.
** No known relation to Raymond Charles Stedman (b. 1917 Temvik, Emmons, N.D. - d. 1992 Grants Pass, Josephine, OR), who was raised among the PB, friend of Howard Hendricks and J. Vernon McGee, and founder of Peninsula Bible Church in Palo Alto, CA.
==Meanwhile and Afterwards==